Talking to ladies is not as hard as it seems once you get used to doing it. While it not as easy as it sounds, it is a true fact.
The truth of the matter is that it get harder to walk up to a lady and say things the more time you spend worrying about it ahead of time. This is true, no matter where you are, whether in a bookstore or coffee shop, bar or beach.
The best way to overcome these fears is to look at the women in the room that you would find interesting to talk to. Once you are comfortable with this, then you can begin to think about the things you will tell them when you actually talk.
One of the easiest ways to start breaking the ice is to think of something funny to say, maybe a funny joke. Women will sense that you are trying to pick them up if you just say hello or come up with some kind of dumb pick up line.
Taking in your surroundings will help you to find funny things to say or joke about, and use your judgment on what will be appropriate for the situation.
If you are stuck looking for the right material to use to be funny, think of something that you heard someone else say before. It can’t hurt, and if she laughs, then it was worth it.
If you want, you can use a line or joke from your favorite movie or TV show. Who knows, she might know the exact line, and that would be something great to start talking over.
Remember that the hardest part of talking is walking up to them for the first time and start talking to her. Once you accomplish this first step, everything is easier, and future talking won’t be such a challenge to master.