Breaking up with someone you love is life’s more painful experiences. It’s also a very common experience. Almost every adult has been through a breakup at some point in their life.
Not all breakups have to be final. Depending on your circumstances, winning back your ex is doable with the right approach.
The suggestions given here will help improve your chances at winning your ex back.
1.) Don’t immediately respond to your emotions.
Immediately acting on the need to remove the pain of breakup will worsen your situation.
2.) Go slow and allow your ex lots of space.
Don’t expect to get him or her back overnight. It will require a fair amount of time. If you respond too quickly, you’re not likely to improve the situation.
You will most likely continue the conflict that caused the breakup in the first place. This will simply push him or her even further away and will justify their decision to leave you.
Giving him or her more space will be a very hard thing to do. Your ex will need this time to really reflect on things and perhaps even start to miss you.
Consequently, you must minimize your phone calls and text messages to your ex. Keeping up some contact is good but don’t push it.
3.) You need to seek out support.
The changeover from being a couple to living on your own again can be a shock to your system. Make an effort to spend time with family and friends. This improves your overall emotional well being and will help in your decision making.
Your emotional well being also affects your life in a big way. Your drive to get on with life is linked to your emotional state. Your feelings about everything affects how you will live your life.
4.) Talk to friends that you have in common with your ex.
They are a good source of information about your ex that you may not have. They will naturally want things to work out for the best for both of you.
They may also put in a good word about you. But be careful not to ask them to choose sides. They’re stuck in the middle and you will have to respect this.